FIND YOUR CONFIDENCE

CONFIDENCE...In YOURSELF....

The time will come when you will ask the question "What have I done with my Life?"Your life will be almost over and your grave already dug. Its a sad fact that we are all dying and getting closer and closer to the end. Many will ask the question and wonder WHY? Why didn't I go for my dreams and spend more time with family then working on my career? Why didn't I take that leap of faith and travel and explore and swim with the sharks? Why didn't I forgive my friend? Why did I care so much about how others saw me and spend all that money on useless things when I could have spent it on my education or on something more meaningful? Why didn't I take the time to get to know my parents while they were still around? Why did I waste my Time on the things in life that don't Matter? why?

There are a thousand reasons WHY we Ask The question WHY... and a lot of the time we know the reason...the answer is simple- (We make excuses)  We don't always see how much time we waste doing the things that don't matter.... like watching television or working late hours or simply drinking ourselves to death at a random bar even falling into addictions. There is a way out of those distractions if you take the time out to help yourself become the person you want to be. Don't Make any more excuses and find yourself asking Why?   START NOW.... Don't waste another precious moment.......
 WHY... WHY NOT DECIDE TODAY TO LIVE.....?

TAKE THE RISK AND FALL....... You might find out you can FLY......

Start writing down in a journal your Goals and dreams 

and HOW to accomplish those dreams. 

Do something everyday that makes you feel alive 

and grateful and joyful to be alive. 

 DON'T waste another minute because time does slip away....... 

You can do Great things. You are worth it.....

People don't always care. its true that life sucks sometimes. If you have confidence issues and you don't like yourself and don't have a positive attitude  then  My advise change yourself. Decide to be the person you want to be. 
no one else matters. YOU MATTER. YOUR FAMILY MATTERS AND YOUR FRIENDS MATTER. 

But YOU is what this is about....... YOUR CHOICE....YOUR CHANGE

When you do that ( people who care will come into your life) but don't wait around and feel sorry for yourself when you find people don't care. Sometimes people don't always think about others. its the sad fact about people in our society. some don't care. there is a selfish cycle of ignorance.  We are in the first Generation of children who will not live past their parents. IN a Recent study the numbers have shown to one out of three being obese and in two years not even HALF OF AMERICA WILL BE OBESE.   

I think THAT IS VERY WRONG..... But our world is all about money$ and some people don't care who they crush and hurt to get there.  We need more caring, Hard working individuals who are educated. 

Education is Key. Don't just take my word for it. Go out there and study and seek and you will find the truth. Don't just listen to the Media and Internet and school systems for answers. Do the  research. Look to see who funded the studies and News. We are constantly being LIED to by the media, magazine and internet.  You need to search and find the truth about our world. What you will find will shock you. How does Education relate? KNOWLEDGE IS POWER AND CONFIDENCE.  Tell yourself all day Long ( I AM INTELLIGENT )     For some Examples----

If you know the Constitution and Bill of rights and all the laws in between, you can't be bullied into thinking otherwise. You can take action yourself and stand up for yourself in any situation. DID you know that The Meat and Dairy Industry created the Food Pyramid and funded it. They built it all wound a system where you THINK you Need to buy certain products to be healthy.  ITS ALL A LIE......THESE INDUSTRIES RULE THE WORLD and we just let it happen..... Those BIG companies buy health regulations and buy out studies to make their products look healthy and a Need instead of just a want. IT'S Influencing the school systems and the Home. By being Educated we can ACT FOR OURSELVES and Not just take others WORD for it. KNOW the WORLD AROUND YOU....EDUCATE YOURSELF....

The Fact is you cant change others  but you can change yourself.
You cant expect people to know you right away or care right away. Because they probably feel the same way that you do and are scared and shy and afraid to get to know others. Choose to be happy today and tomorrow it'll come naturally. 
Don't care about what others think because they are already thinking the same things you are. 
When your single all you see are the couples and when your a couple all you see is are the single people walking around. 
truth is you have more than one soul mate. so its possible to come across one of them. 
Take chances and be brave and SPEAK UP , your VOICE matters

 and allow others to get to know you. 

Don't expect anyone else to talk first. you have to decide for yourself  if its what you want. you wanna be handsome or Beautiful then start acting like you already know you are and people will notice. 
If you really don't like how you look then change yourself. Life is too short to be wasting time wondering WHAT IF. 

 DO IT THE RIGHT WAY. THERE IS NO MIRACLE PILL...... LOOK AT THE PEOPLE WITH THE LONG TERM RESULTS YOU DESIRE AND FOLLOW THEIR EXAMPLE. please don't try a quick fix... they don't work.... you didn't get the way you are in a matter of days or weeks so don't expect change that quickly. You have to train your body and mind to trust you and work for you. WHAT YOU TELL YOUR BRAIN THE MOST IT WILL CREATE..... 
Tomorrow I'll get fit. Tomorrow I'll talk to that girl. Tomorrow I'll start studying and Tomorrow I'll be happy. TODAY is the day you start living the life you want. 
When you decide Today to be happy and go for those goals you will  find Success.
 SO Don't waste another minute and BE THE PERSON YOU WANT TO BE. "The Things you tell the brain the most it will CREATE". So here's the question? After reading this what did you decide? 

HOW YOU CAN START....

1. Do something everyday that makes you feel alive and grateful to be alive

2. Keep a Dream journal. so you can remember the crazy things your brain thinks about when your asleep.

3.Keep a Goals Journal. Write down all your short term and long term goals and figure out how to accomplish those goals. 

4. Keep a Gratitude Journal so you can write down everyday what you are grateful for and why. You may find you had a better day then you thought.

5. Keep a Day Journal. To write down everything that happened that day so you can pass on your life to your children.

6. ALWAYS keep a small thought book in your pocket or bag so any quotes or thoughts you hear or find you can record. Any new goals or things your thankful for. so you won't forget. 

7. Always keep on you a small Camera to capture the moments. Maybe even a small video camera like an I-Flip to capture those funny moments. The truth is we don't remember Days but we remember moments. 

8. Keep many Scarp books and record those amazing events.

9. MAKE TIME.. for the ones you Love because that's the way you show them your love. Time is the most precious Gift you can give someone. 

10. Understand Success is not Given. The key to Success is Hard WORK. but don't forget to play. 

11. KEEP A CALENDER and Maybe even a planner. Because an organized day is a much easier day. You can't Expect the unexpected but you can plan to be surprised. 

12. EDUCATE YOURSELF...  In all things

13. FIND BALANCE.....in your Mental, Physical, emotional and spiritual Health. To be healthy and happy you need balance. 

Take each day one DAY at a Time and Laugh as much as you can. Some days can feel overwhelming but just slow down and breath and write a list of importance and take each task one at a time. ORGANIZATION IS A KEY TO TAKING STRESS OUT OF THE EQUATION.

A.... CLEAN ENVIRONMENT, CLEAN ENTERTAINMENT, CLEAN FRIENDS, CLEAN MIND, CLEAN THOUGHTS, CLEAN BODY CAN = CLEAN CHANGE...... :)

STUDY PEOPLE THAT HAVE SUCCESS AND LEARN FROM THEM. BE AROUND PEOPLE WHO ARE HAPPY AND CONFIDENT AND LEARN FROM THEM. LEARN FROM YOUR MISTAKES AND KEEP YOUR PROMISES. THINK OF OTHERS AND THEY WILL THINK OF YOU....GIVE SERVICE AND BE KIND TO EVERYONE....HELL IS ONLY MEETING THE PERSON YOU COULD HAVE BECOME.... 

The KEY to happiness is A choice...Choose to Be Happy Today 

Find the balance. A Healthy Physical, Mental, Emotional and Spiritual Self

Knowledge is the only thing that can give anyone power. So read many books and know how the world works. You are intelligent, successful and  worth it. 

AND Just Figure the rest out...... You can diffidently no doubt in my mind do it.

.....When the time comes don't ask WHY but WOW what a Life I have Lived..... 

Don't FORGET TO TELL THOSE YOU  LOVE OUT LOUD THAT YOU LOVE THEM.....AND NEVER FORGET TO PRAY.... BE THANKFUL AND STAY POSITIVE....

OUR MINDS DO WHAT WE TELL IT MOST. 

ALL POSITIVE THOUGHTS COME FROM GOD. SO JUST DO IT. ALL NEGATIVE THOUGHTS COME FROM THE DEVIL. SO FOR EVERY NEGATIVE THOUGHT.GIVE FIVE TO TEN POSITIVE THOUGHTS FOR EVERY NEGATIVE.

OUR BODY AND MIND LIKE TO STAY CONSTANT. THAT'S WHY ITS SO DIFFICULT TO CHANGE. A BODY INACTIVE WANTS TO STAY INACTIVE. A BODY UNCONFINED AND NEGATIVE WANTS TO KEEP PUTTING THOSE THOUGHTS AND IDEAS IN YOUR HEAD...........YOU MUST TAKE ACTION AND STOP THAT FLOW. YOU CAN CHANGE.....IT JUST TAKES A LITTLE EFFORT.....

SO START NOW........

Rules of importance

Love God-Love Others-Love Yourself

God First-You SECOND and World Third

pay God-Pay yourself then pay Bills.

Don't always look for the rainbow at the end of the storm but enjoy the rain and sounds.  Dance, Sing, and Laugh because before you know it the darkness will have lifted of your shoulders . The sun will shine and beautiful colors clothed around you for comfort and you will feel grateful to have surpassed the storm. 

some people pursue happiness and others decide to just create it.